Implosions and I share the same Ic. My Moon is in Cancer however and conjuncts the Ic.Like Implosions mentioned, we moved around a lot(Moon). And so I struggled to find real belonging anywhere as I got older.
The one thing about my home however is that when it was good, it was really good. But the worst was my Father ;who was Cancer Sun and had the most changeable moods. He was very easily irritable,critical & fussy.
Now my Ic squares Mercury/Mars to characterize what I said above. And like Implosions, I have learned that I can go anywhere in life. But still find a home within myself.
If there is one thing Moon conjunct Ic or in 4th teaches one is : you can create a warm, homey environment wherever you are. As I am active domestically;I cook,bake, clean, paint, wash clothes,dishes etc.
My 5th house cusp is Leo and its empty. The ruler(Sun) forms a conjunction to Neptune.
Neptune in 5th or Neptune/Venus people are similar to me. I am deeply romantic and love to create little romantic scenarios and stories in my head.
Neptune adds idealism(at worst delusions) to the 5th, so there is a tendency for one to want to extend the romantic phase of the relationship for as long as possible.
Neptune is not big on physical sex for its own sake. But sensuality. Its standards are not only unrealistic but what adds to the confusion is them being unclear.
Neptune also adds fog to love prospects & some misunderstandings i.e falling inlove with someone whom is ill equipped to return the sentiment (abusive,married,psychotic).
The other is having other people fall inlove with you and project their own ideals on you. Making it harder for them to see you for you i.e you are the romantic lead in their novel etc.
The other possibility is not knowing what you want in relationships, whom you are attracted to and why?
Sometimes , especially if Uranus/ Mercury /Venus/Jup or Moon is in the 8th or interacting with it, fluid sexual identity is indicated or a intricate sexual orientation.
The problem is not necessarily that may be bisexual. The problem could arise in being on the fence and not asserting ones bisexuality for fear that it may "box" them. So one may even keep their sexual orientation secret or entertain it in an under carpet way etc. And in other cases it could be latent.
Neptune(like Uranus) hates boxes and can seep through them unnoticed.